For Friends

Get your friend help.friendsfriends

Your friend really needs you right now. She may be leaning on you a lot.how to help her

It can be really overwhelming, so don’t be afraid to ask for help. ComfortCare nurses and Patient Advocates are trained to provide support for women in unexpected pregnancy. We help women like your friend every day.

We’re also here for you.

Even if your friend won’t make an appointment, we’ll be glad to assist you with resources and support.

 

Is your friend really pregnant?
Has she just taken a home test? Your friend still needs a doctor to confirm a viable, intrauterine pregnancy. (This means the fetus is implanted in the uterus, not the fallopian tubes, and that the fetus has a heartbeat.)

Just because a pregnancy test is positive doesn’t mean the pregnancy is viable. About 1 out of every 4 pregnancies ends in miscarriage.1

At ComfortCare, women receive an ultrasound to confirm that the pregnancy is located where it needs to be and that the fetus has a heart beat. The ultrasound can also determine how far along she is.

 

Make sure she’s tested for STIs (sexually transmitted infections).
STIs can affect any unexpected pregnancy decision.

For instance, a woman who has Chlamydia at the time of her abortion has a 25% chance of contracting PID (Pelvic Inflammatory Disease) within 4 weeks of the procedure.2 PID is dangerous because it can cause damage to the affected reproductive organs. If left untreated, it can escalate into serious medical complications that can be lifelong.

If a woman decides to carry to term, untreated STIs can be transferred to the baby during delivery. All women should be tested for STIs regardless of their pregnancy decision.

At ComfortCare limited STI testing is conducted without charge and referrals for comprehensive testing can be made.

 

Educate yourselves and your friend on pregnancy options.
“Pregnancy options” can seem like funny words to someone with an unexpected pregnancy. Sometimes it feels like there are no options at all.  Many women feel pressured into one decision by friends and family.

At ComfortCare, professional nurses and trained Peer Advocates can discuss any pregnancy option. Facts replace fears.

 

 

1 Obstetric and Gynecologic Diagnosis and Treatment Ninth Ed. DeCherney, Alan H, et al, ch24
2 “Significance of Cervical Chlamydia Trachomatis Infection in Post-abortal Pelvic Inflammatory Disease,” Obstetrics and Gynecology, 60(3); 322-325, (1982); M. Chacko, et al